How Much Does a Mail Order Bride Cost?

Sexy Russian bride wearing Fur HatToday’s modern era no longer includes a person meeting another and spending a long time in a relationship before marriage. International brides are an option for many men since they are known for their beauty and courteous ways.

A great number of these women have high intelligence and cultural values. They come with an ingrained respect for marriage and place family before a career.

All of these qualities make them excellent mates. When considering this path to marriage, it is important to understand the costs associated with pursuing a foreign bride.

The Average Cost

On average, pursuing a mail order bride will cost you between $1000 to $15,000. There are many things included in this price:

1. Reputable Sites. It is best to stay away from free websites, since they are often filled with scams. One man relates the cost of a  bride to that of buying a car. He claims “It all depends on what you are willing to spend.”

2. Catalogs. The next part of the price includes the catalogs used to make the selections. Each of these will usually run around $120.

3. Translation Fees. Since a large amount of these foreign brides do not speak English, a person must hire a translator for phone and other forms of correspondence. They will usually charge $6 per minute on the phone.

4. Addresses. When a man becomes serious about a few women, he will want to purchase the girl’s address to send letters and gifts. Addresses usually will cost between $10 and $15. A translator will also be needed for these letters which will normally adds another $10 to $15 a letter.

Dating After Finalizing A Bride

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It is always best to meet the future bride in her home country. The family will probably want to meet the girl’s future husband. This meeting is referred to as a romance tour. These trips can cost anywhere from $3500 to $7000.

If things go well and a ceremony will be performed, it is necessary to file a K1 Visa. The fee for this is $450, but $250 is usually needed to pay for translation of the documents.

Statistics show that ever year, thousands of mail order brides come to this country. Over three quarters of these marriages end happily and are long lasting. There are many hidden costs associated with pairing with an international mate.

Even as the internet has made the process a bit easier, the cost of mail order brides is still a bit high, but proven to be worth it in the end.

Do Not Come According To Specifications

hot woman from odessaMail order brides do not come according to specifications despite the use of a term which seems to imply that they do. Human beings are complex and dynamic, especially in the context of a relationship and that is an important distinction between products and people.

The term is probably applied with a touch of disparagement to the process of arranged marriages which is a great deal older than the mail order industry is. The notion that marriage should be an outcome of a romantic relationship between two people does not easily fit with the notion of arranged marriage

In many world cultures it is believed that marriage contracts should be arranged by families and not by individuals. This does not always preclude girls and boys from having a say in the matter that affects their lives.

In some societies a girl may reject the person who her parents select for her, and only agree to a marriage when they feel that they can grow to love their marriage partner. In different societies there are different degrees of independence permitted.

Social status and economic eligibility are not overtly acknowledged in English speaking cultures as important, though they may be covertly.

In other cultures an educated professional person with financial assets evident in the possession of a fancy car make a person an extremely eligible marriage prospect.

In Western cultures the higher echelons of society have subscribed to arranged marriages for centuries. The principle of marrying for social and economic compatibility may have been downplayed in recent history as aristocracy and privilege have tended to merge with a cult of celebrity status.

In English speaking communities young people usually form their own relationships which may or may not lead to marriage. A new friend may be taken home to meet parents but their approval is not regarded as being imperative.

Even in the privileged classes where arranged marriages have been the norm there have been instances of people asserting their independent choice.

The Internet has transformed many aspects of the world in the few decades since its advent. Typewriters have been become obsolete and newspapers are showing signs of going the same way.

Newspapers and magazines were used by people who wished to advertise their availability for marriage in the past and now online dating sites are increasingly being used instead.

kissing via internetOnline dating sites offer a compromise between traditional methods of arranging marriages and the free and independent methods of romantic marriage. From a lap top one can search the world across many cultures and thousands of interested people.

Once the initial contact is made many details have to be filled in, often with family assistance, but the element of independent choice remains strong.

Aspirant brides are wise to be wary. So too should be men who contact women, some of whom could be cruel and ruthless.

However all marriage entail risks and some people think that online dating sites can be a great improvement on the ways that things were done in the past.

What is a “Mail Order Bride”

Russian mail order bride with sexy tummyLet’s get something straight right off the bat; MAIL ORDER BRIDES ARE NOT FOR SALE.

That is called Slavery and in has been out of fashion for quite some time!

Mail order bride” is a title left over from the early days of International Dating. Back in the days before the internet, communication between Western men and foreign women was very cumbersome, so much so that many men would just find a girl in a catalog and bring her to the USA before really getting to know her.

Of course this created all sorts of problems, so the term “Mail Order Brides” was coined.

This unfortunate label is probably the single biggest factor in the stigma that is still attached to the International marriage industry.   It leaves the practice open for ridicule from uneducated people in forums, blog comments and the media.

Two of the most common questions I am asked are:

  1. Do I need to pay the shipping on my mail order bride?
  2. Does my mail order bride come with a 30 day guarantee?

If you are one of the guys who asked this question… Get some new material!